Stop Settling for Happy When You Really Want the Dream
This blueprint is your way out of the Happy Trap—the emotional state where you stop being who you really see—because every time you do, your love life drifts further from the dream you still imagine.
The Happy Trap is where billions of people find themselves—the emotional state where they stop being who they really see. And it’s quietly suffocating their love lives. Whether they’re single, dating, or committed, they’re aching for more. More passion. More connection. More of the dream they still imagine.
But what about you?
You’re not miserable—just unsure if it’s selfish to want deeper. More aliveness. More presence. More of that magnetic, can’t-stop-thinking-about-you kind of love.
Not just support—but spark.
Not just partnership—but this is everything I ever pictured kind of love.
The kind that makes you smile when you think of them.
The kind that makes the world disappear when you’re wrapped in each other’s arms.
You want more than love.
You want presence. Passion. That dreamy, I-love-thinking-about-you kind of love.
You want more than just happy.
You want the dream.
And it begins the moment you stop settling for happy—when you really want the dream
- Maybe you had that spark once—and you miss it.
- Maybe you’ve never truly felt it, even with the person you’re with—but something in you believes it’s possible.
- Maybe you do have it—and you want to protect it, nurture it, keep rewriting the story together.
- Or maybe you’re still waiting to find the person who matches the vision you secretly imagine.
Our blueprint is for anyone who still believes in the dream—whether you’re single, dating, married, disconnected, or even already with your soulmate. If you’re ready to stop pretending and finally go after what you truly desire, this is your blueprint to create the bold, deeply connected, romance-filled love life you imagine.
This isn’t a teaser. This is our entire coaching process in a written coaching experience. This is the complete, proven roadmap we use in our most transformational programs—no fluff, no filler. We walk you through The ACT Method™, The Secrets to a Level 10 Love Life™, Create Your Fantasy Love Story™, and Love Reimagined™.
In this written coaching experience, you’ll learn how to:
- Break free from the Happy Trap—where "happy" hides deep dissatisfaction
Overcome the pressure to settle and the fear of wanting more
Align with the truth of who you really see yourself being
Build a magnetic emotional connection that feels real, alive, and deeply fulfilling
Design a relationship rooted in clarity, honesty, and what you actually want
This isn’t just about love—it’s about truth.
Whether you’re single and searching, dating, or already married to the person of your dreams, this is your blueprint to stop pretending—and start living the love story you imagine.
Stop Settling for Happy When You Really Want the Dream is your way out of the happy trap. It's your blueprint to break free from silent patterns, reclaim your identity, and create the extraordinary love life you imagine.
This written coaching experience is for anyone ready to stop performing, stop pretending—and start creating what they truly desire: the bold, deeply connected, romance-filled love life they imagine.
Inside, you’ll master the proven Be Who You Really See™ Methodology—creating true emotional connection, authentic clarity, and lasting transformation from the inside out.
"Disrupting the lies society has programmed us to believe.
Ashley and Tristan are doing just that. Helping couples build that level 10 love life…..passion, amazing sex, vision casting, communication, unity building…. They are leading the way.
Check them out! You won’t regret it!"
LaShawne Holland
THE QUEEN OF GREEN
She has appeared in over 350 media outlets to include Yahoo Finance, Market Watch, Bloomberg Businessweek, NBC, ABC, Worth Magazine, BET, Chicago Business Journal, DEALBREAKER, Gospel Today, Reuters, Fox 5 News, EMoney Daily, BEYOND THE DOW, Atlanta Business Chronicle, and CBS News to name a few.
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SUCCESS STORIES
What some of our happy individuals and couples say about us...
4.5 out of 5 hearts
Felicia Roberts, Wife
"...In my singleness and now married life she has helped me dig deep in situations that have helped me learn and grow into a whole woman..."
Anonymous, Husband
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"...It was an absolute blessing that we crossed paths on that day. My mindset has since been refocused on making my marriage and home a place of integrity, and peace for myself, my wife and our family."
Candice W., Mom, Girlfriend
"...Ashley helped me connect with the person that I had always wanted to try to be, she pushed me, she guided me, she made me really think..."
G.F., Husband
He wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"Tristan has been a true game-changer for our marriage. We were at a crossroads and had lost that special spark that brought us together in the first place... We were able to reconnect on a deeper level, find balance in our personal and professional lives, and our joint business continued to thrive..."
Anonymous, Husband
He wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"I was steadily trying to win my wife back even after she’d expressed that this season had ended. The divorce was going to happen for sure this time. The questions that Tristan and Ashley asked me helped me understand the role I played in the separation...I’m still working on my mindset, but I know I am already a better man, father and businessman. In my next relationship I will have the tools to listen to concerns when they come up and make adjustments that show how much I care."
Anonymous, Pastor, Wife
She wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"...I’ve started doing things purposefully and it feels so good to see the results so far! After being married 19 years I needed to reflect on our true love and bring that intimacy, sparkle and desire we had with each other. Being a pastor and wife plus both having busy jobs with long hours we kinda had put our marriage and love life on the back burner. Since doing your steps it’s been amazing!! We both needed to answer those questions and start fresh!! Thank you so much!!..."
These are paraphrased testimonials. You can access the full testimonials by clicking here: ACCESS FULL TESTIMONIALS
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Tristan helped me get clear on what I want to give and receive in a relationship. He made me stick to the vision I created and held me accountable to not fall back into old patterns. Now, I’m continuing to work on myself, feeling more in control and responsible for my life. I’ve done a lot of apologizing, accepted responsibility, and have even shed tears. I feel better.
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
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"...one of the new biggest things that came up for me was that I was keeping the peace with those around me at the expense of my peace. So I was at war with myself, because I wasn’t being honest with people around me, and just expressing what was really going on with me. And that was affecting me in my relationship and my business...I’m not there all the way to the vision, but just working with Ashley, I’ve gotten one of my biggest contracts that I have ever had as a business owner. I am at peace, and I am very clear about what I want. And I am taking the steps of my life to get everything that I want. And I’m coming for everything that is mine. And I think God for Ashley being that catalyst for a lot of that change to happen."
Kamilah Harrison, Founder of ADO Digital
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Tristan helped me to let go of the negative thinking that I was having about myself and my role as a contributor in our home and he also helped me to see the positives in the fact that my girlfriend is a ride-or-die chick who loves me despite how much money that I have or the car that I drive, etc.
With a clearer mindset,focused on solutions rather than my ego I’ve been able to craft some solutions to be able to bring in more income without sacrificing my dream and we’ve even been able to come up with solutions to downsize our living expenses so that we can quickly overcome this difficult time.
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
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