The People You’re Meant to Serve Are Waiting—
Is This Is Your Moment to Lead
You have dedicated your life to transformation. As a therapist, coach, or minister, you hold space for others in ways that profoundly change their lives. You guide people through their struggles, help them heal from past wounds, and walk with them toward growth and personal evolution. You witness breakthroughs, yet you know in your heart there is a deeper level of impact waiting for you.
You crave more—more impact, more fulfillment, more freedom to shape your calling in a way that reflects the life-changing work you do. And let’s be honest, you deserve more income that truly honors the level of transformation you facilitate. You are meant for more, and it’s time to step into that reality.
This program is for life changers who are ready to expand their impact, scale their success, and step into their highest potential.
A Hidden Struggle Your Individuals and Couples Face—And They Need You So They Can Solve It
Right now, there are people searching for answers. They have invested in self-improvement, worked on themselves, and taken responsibility for their happiness. But despite their progress, one area remains an elusive struggle—love and relationships.
They are ambitious, self-aware, and deeply introspective. They’ve built successful careers, created stability, and achieved personal growth. Yet, behind closed doors, a quiet, gut-wrenching fear lingers:
“Will I ever experience the love I truly desire?”
They fear that love will always be just out of reach. That they will either settle or remain stuck in an unsatisfying love life, never fully experiencing the kind of connection they crave. This unspoken pain is what keeps them awake at night.
Because love isn’t just another aspect of life—it is the foundation of fulfillment. And when they find the right guidance, they are ready to invest in deep, lasting transformation.
The Missing Piece in Love and Relationship Transformation
You already help people transform. You guide them in processing their past, breaking through limiting beliefs, and reconnecting with their true selves. You provide invaluable tools for healing.
Yet, when it comes to love, many still struggle. Old patterns resurface. They gain insight but can’t apply it in relationships. They long for deep connection, yet something holds them back.
Not because they aren’t capable. Not because you aren’t guiding them correctly. But because lasting transformation in love requires more than healing—it requires a structured framework that bridges self-awareness and action.
This is the missing piece. And with the right approach, you can be the guide who helps them finally unlock the love life they dream of.
Why Traditional Relationship Advice Fails—and How You Can Lead the Change
The world of love and relationships is evolving. The way people connect, navigate love, and build meaningful partnerships is shifting rapidly. Yet, outdated advice continues to hold people back.
For too long, relationship guidance has relied on ineffective models:
This is why so many people struggle in love despite their personal growth.
Your individuals and couples don’t just need someone to help them fix their relationships. They need someone who can guide them in actively creating love that aligns with who they truly are.
That someone is you.
Be Part of the Revolution of Love—In a Way Only You Can.
Because Some People Can Only Be Transformed by You
By now, you can see it clearly. Your individuals and couples don’t just need healing; they need a new way forward in love.
They need a method that helps them bridge the gap between their personal growth and their ability to create the love they desire. They need a guide who can help them align their relationships with their highest vision for themselves.
That’s where you come in.
The world needs leaders who can guide people through this shift. Leaders who understand that love isn’t just something that happens—it’s something we actively create. Leaders who are ready to offer their individuals and couples more than temporary breakthroughs—leaders who are prepared to facilitate lasting transformation.
Is Helping People Create the Love Life They Imagine Your Calling?
If So, Are You Ready to Answer?
You’ve spent years transforming lives.
You’ve guided people through breakthroughs, helped them heal, and walked beside them as they reclaimed their power.
But what if your impact could go even deeper?
What if you could help people transform the most important part of their lives—their relationships— in a way that truly lasts?
Because right now, there’s someone waiting for you.
They’ve done the work. They’ve grown, evolved, and taken responsibility for their life. Yet, despite all their progress, love still feels like a mystery.
No matter how much they achieve, they keep ending up in relationships that don’t align with who they truly are.
They don’t need more self-help books. They don’t need generic dating advice.
They need someone who can finally help them bridge the gap between personal growth and lasting love.
That someone is you.
The Struggle Everyone Talks About—But Rarely Admit Is Affecting Every Part of Their Life…
And Why You Hold the Key
Love is one of the most talked-about topics in the world.
It’s talked about everywhere.
In whispered secrets between friends. In late-night texts and long therapy sessions. In the podcasts they binge, the books they highlight, the advice they seek—but rarely follow.
It’s in the workplace, woven into lunchtime conversations between colleagues.
It’s whispered during girls’ night out—deep dives into text messages, analyzing what he said and what he really meant.
It's a conversation during guys’ night out–thrown amongst the conversation about sports, professional growth, business opportunities, earning more money and activities they’d like to be doing.
It’s at happy hours, where friends trade stories about first dates, heartbreaks, and almosts.
It’s on date nights, where couples should be enjoying each other—but instead, they’re quietly trying to fix what feels broken.
It’s in therapy rooms, in late-night phone calls, in podcasts people play on repeat—searching for answers they can’t quite find.
It’s the topic of millions of conversations—yet the source of countless sleepless nights.
Because despite all the talking, all the listening, all the analyzing, all the searching…most people are still trying to figure it out.
It’s spoken from pulpits and prayer circles.
It’s woven into teachings on Wednesdays, Thursdays, Saturdays, and Sundays.
It’s in sermons about faith, in spiritual gatherings, in meditations on connection and devotion.
It’s the subject of late-night philosophy debates, the heart of poetry, the theme of songs that echo through generations.
It’s contemplated in temples, whispered in mosques, studied in sacred texts, and reimagined in modern self-help.
Whether you’re religious or not… whether you believe in divine destiny or pure free will… love is still the conversation.
Because at the core, everyone—everyone who longs to experience the beauty of love without the weight of pain—is trying to understand it. Not just to find it, but to finally experience it the way it was meant to be.
It’s the topic of millions of conversations—yet the source of countless sleepless nights.
Because despite all the talking, all the listening, all the analyzing, all the searching…most people are still trying to figure it out.
But Here’s What Almost No One Admits…
Love isn’t just a part of life—it shapes everything.
When love isn’t right, it’s not just frustrating—it’s consuming.
It’s the hidden weight behind their biggest distractions.
It’s the pressure that follows them into their work, their health, their happiness.
It’s the silent force behind their stress, their doubts, their inability to fully exhale.
It’s why the most ambitious people can achieve everything they set out to—but still feel like something’s missing.
It’s why they can be deeply self-aware—but still end up in the same painful patterns.
It’s why they tell themselves they’re fine—but keep coming back to the same questions.
Because no matter how much success someone has, if their love life isn’t aligned, nothing else feels fully right.
And yet, most people never get the support they truly need.
Not because they aren’t trying. Not because they don’t want love to work.
But because most approaches only give them part of the equation.
Some focus on healing but leave people stuck in the past.
Others push action but ignore the deep emotional wiring that keeps them repeating old patterns.
And most advice? It only scratches the surface.
So instead, they try to figure it out on their own.
They distract themselves with work, personal growth, or short-term solutions—never realizing that these unseen forces are shaping their entire life.
And That’s Why This Work Is Different.
This isn’t just about improving relationships.
Lasting love requires more.
It takes deep emotional healing without getting stuck there.
It takes proven, structured strategies—not just insight.
It takes reprogramming the subconscious patterns shaping every relationship decision.
That’s exactly what this work is built to do.
It’s not just about knowing what needs to change—it’s about rewiring love at the core, so deep connection becomes natural, effortless, and lasting.
It’s about breaking free from the invisible patterns keeping people stuck—so love, success, and fulfillment can finally align.
Because once you see the truth, you can’t unsee it.
The only question is—are you partnering with us to use what really works to do something about it?
Mastering the Core Principles of Our Frameworks Has Transformed Lives Across Every Walk of Life—
Because Love Challenges Everyone
- Our own lives and marriage were transformed using the frameworks we teach.
- High-end individuals and couples have flown across the country just to work with us, knowing they needed something more than traditional relationship advice.
- We’ve traveled to support high-net-worth individuals who, despite their accomplishments, felt unfulfilled in their relationships and sought expert guidance.
- Therapists, life coaches, and spiritual leaders—people others turn to for wisdom—have sought our guidance when they realized love still felt like a mystery in their own lives.
- Business owners, professionals, and creatives—high achievers who have built success but struggled to create the kind of love they truly desire—have come to us to bridge the gap.
- We’ve worked with single parents, ministers, and executives—people who give so much to others but never had a clear, proven framework for creating love that lasts.
- One multi-multi-millionaire even invited us to retreat at his home for weeks—so we could observe firsthand what was happening in his relationship and help resolve it.
Because when it comes to wanting to experience love the way you really imagine, very few things matter as much.
The right relationship can amplify every other area of life—career, purpose, fulfillment, and personal growth.
But the wrong relationship? It drains everything.
The struggle isn’t a lack of desire. It’s a lack of the right approach.
That’s where you come in.
The Real Question People Are Asking
They don’t need another relationship book.
They don’t need more vague “communication tips” that don’t actually shift anything.
What they’re really asking is:
- How do I create the kind of love that lasts?
- How do I feel safe, seen, and desired—all at once?
- How do I finally break free from the patterns that have kept me stuck?
And we have a proven methodology that answers those questions—not just with insight, but with real transformation.
Because when love isn’t working, people don’t just want advice—they want answers.
They want to know why they keep ending up in the same cycles. Why love feels harder than it should. Why nothing they’ve tried has truly changed things.
What they’re really looking for isn’t more information. It’s transformation. They want to experience what they see.
And we know why they’re still struggling to experience it.
The Hidden Reason Most People Stay Stuck in Love—And How to Break Free
For too long, people have been given outdated models for love.
They’ve been told to “communicate better.” To “be more confident.” To “set boundaries.”
But what happens when their identity—their subconscious wiring—is still operating from a place of fear, insecurity, or unworthiness?
This is why they keep repeating the same painful patterns.
Because lasting transformation in love doesn’t happen through tips or surface-level changes.
It happens when people shift who they are at the core.
That’s exactly what The Be Who You Really See™ Methodology does.
The Framework That Changes Everything
This is not another dating strategy.
This is identity transformation.
The Be Who You Really See™ Methodology bridges the gap between therapy and coaching.
It rewires subconscious patterns while giving people a structured, actionable roadmap to finally create the love they desire.
It helps them align their relationships with their highest self.
Because love doesn’t change until we change.
And when you master this work, you become the coach who makes that transformation possible.
How Be Who You Really See™ Stands Apart from Other Relationship Methodologies
If you’ve explored relationship coaching before, you know the industry is filled with different approaches—each claiming to have the answer.
But not all methods are created equal.
Some focus only on fixing problems once they’ve already happened. Others leave you stuck in self-analysis with no real roadmap for change. And many are built on temporary attraction tactics instead of designing love that naturally evolves and deepens over time.
If you’re serious about guiding people to real, lasting transformation, then you need an approach that goes beyond surface-level strategies and actually rewires the way people experience love.
Where Other Methods Fall Short—And Why Be Who You Really See™ Fills the Gaps
THE FACTS
Why This Approach Is Different—And Why, at This Moment in History, It’s the Only Path to the Love You Were Meant to Experience
Most relationship methodologies fit into one of these categories:
- Reactive – They help couples fix problems but don’t guide them in designing love that naturally works.
- Insight-Based – They provide self-awareness but no real plan to create change.
- Attraction-Focused – They teach dating tactics rather than true, sustainable connection.
- Healing-Oriented – They help process past wounds but don’t focus on creating a future vision for love.
Be Who You Really See™ doesn’t fit into any of these categories—because it does what none of them do:
The Bottom Line
If You Want More Than Just Relationship Advice, a Toolbox of Strategies, and Tips You Struggle to Remember When It Matters Most… This Is the Only Choice
If you’re looking for:
Then Be Who You Really See™ is the only methodology that delivers on all fronts.
The world doesn’t need more people talking about love.
It needs leaders who can guide others into a completely new way of experiencing it.
Are you ready to be that leader?
Proven Frameworks for Relationship Transformation
Our frameworks aren’t just effective—they establish you as a trusted expert delivering unparalleled outcomes.
The Be Who You Really See™ Methodology
A First-of-Its-Kind System That Bridges the Gap Between Therapy & Coaching
- Traditional therapy helps people heal, but often keeps them stuck in self-analysis without forward movement.
- Coaching drives action but often lacks the emotional depth for true, lasting change.
- This methodology combines both, offering a structured, repeatable system that rewires subconscious patterns, heals emotional wounds, and equips individuals with the tools to create deeply fulfilling relationships.
What makes The Be Who You Really See™ Methodology different?
- Trauma-Informed Depth – Healing insights without getting stuck in the past.
- Structured, Results-Driven Coaching – Actionable strategies rooted in emotional depth.
- Subconscious Identity Shifts – Rewiring hidden patterns for lasting transformation.
This proven, repeatable framework doesn’t just give individuals and couples insight—it provides a clear roadmap to lasting love.
The Be Who You Really See™ Methodology is the most comprehensive relationship training program for vision-driven women and men who want to be who they see themselves being and create a love life they love:
- A Clear Vision that aligns with their core values and deepest desires.
- A Step-by-Step Roadmap to transform into who they know they can be while experiencing the love life they imagine.
- Clear Goals & Proven Strategies from experts who have built what they are aiming to build and have coached others to the same success.
- A Proven Process for releasing fears, insecurities, uncertainties, doubt, old beliefs, past pain, self-sabotage, and resentment—barriers that have kept them from the love they truly desire.
Research-Backed Programs for Relationship Mastery
Individuals and Couples:
- The ACT Method™ – Learn how to Achieve clarity, connect authentically, and transcend limitations to fully step into the love life you imagine.
- The Secrets to A Level 10 Love Life™ – Learn the the top three secrets of irresistible lovers to break free from hidden patterns silently sabotaging relationships.
- Create Your Fantasy Love Story™ – Master the top three secrets of irresistible lovers to effortlessly stay free from patterns that have blocked your ideal relationship.
- Love Reimagined™ – Follow a proven roadmap to release nine hidden beliefs sabotaging love and create a magnetic emotional connection filled with excitement, intimacy, and true alignment.
This structured approach ensures that individuals and couples don’t just gain insight—they experience real transformation.
All material is covered under copyrights with the US Copyright Office. The copyright protection shall remain in effect for the life of the author plus an additional 70 years. We do offer a licensing program for those interested in using our material for any purpose and/or activities intended to garner business or public attention. As a participant in any solutions offered by The Fantasy Love Co., you agree not to use, disclose, repurpose, repackage, or resell any content, methodologies, information, or teachings provided during or as a part of the course for any commercial purposes without the express written consent of The Fantasy Love Co. This includes, but is not limited to, starting a similar service, conducting trainings, or creating content derived from our materials with the intent to garner business. This agreement is in effect for a period of ten years (120 months) following the conclusion of your participation in the course. Violation of this agreement will result in legal action for injunctive relief, damages, and any other remedies available under the law, including financial compensation for damages incurred by The Fantasy Love Co.. By participating, you acknowledge and agree to these terms and understand the consequences of violating this agreement.
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Is This Your Calling? Will This Be Your Greatest Impact Yet?
This Is Bigger Than Us—Will You Stand With Us to Lead the Revolution of Love?
You’re already changing lives. You’ve built your practice on wisdom, insight, and a deep commitment to helping people grow.
But what if you could take your individuals and couples even further—guiding them not just to breakthroughs, but to the love life they truly imagine?
Because at the core, this is the transformation they want more than anything.
And this area—more than anything else—is where they are ready to invest their time, energy, and resources.
Because love isn’t just another part of life. It’s the foundation of everything.
This isn’t just about helping people create the love life they imagine.
This is about helping them become the version of themselves that attracts and sustains the love they’ve always imagined.
And when you master this process, you set yourself apart as a true leader in this space.
People aren’t looking for another coach.
They’re looking for someone who can guide them through the most important transformation of their lives.
Someone who doesn’t just give them insight—but gives them results.
When you master The Be Who You Really See™ Methodology, you are going to:
Remember: This isn’t just about giving people relationship advice.
It’s about providing a clear, structured roadmap that rewires relational patterns at the core, guiding people to deep, identity-level transformation, and empowering them to create the love life they truly imagine.
This isn’t about doing more—it’s about making every session, every interaction, every breakthrough more powerful.
Your individuals and couples aren’t just looking for advice. They’re looking for a way to finally experience the love life they imagine.
Now, it’s time to give them exactly what they need.
You’re Already Changing Lives—
Now It’s Time to Expand Your Impact.
Imagine the moment when a client looks at you—tears in their eyes—and says, "You didn’t just change my love life. You changed my life."
That’s what happens when you help people heal and step into true transformation in this area.
Within weeks, you’ll be leading individuals and couples through breakthroughs they once thought were impossible—leaving them wondering, "Where has this been my whole life?"
And in the process, you’ll be building something for yourself:
- A practice that not only supports people in crisis but helps them create extraordinary love.
- A business that expands your reach, fuels your passion, and gives you financial freedom.
- A legacy of transformation—helping people not just heal, but truly thrive in love and life.
You’ve already made such a difference. Now, it’s time to take everything you do to the next level—so you and your individuals and couples can experience the love and fulfillment you both deserve.
And MAKE NO DOUBT ABOUT IT—this is the transformation your individuals and couples are most eager to achieve and are ready to invest in.
Because no matter how much success they’ve achieved…love is the one thing they deeply desire to get right.
It’s not fear that drives them—it’s their highest vision. Their greatest longing. The dream of a love life that feels deeply aligned, fulfilling, and real.
And when they find someone who can truly guide them—not just through healing, but into the love they’ve always imagined—they are ready to invest.
That’s why mastering a proven, structured framework is the key to elevating your impact and creating lasting transformation.
The Be Who You Really See™
Practitioner (Licensee) Program
Fulfill Your Calling. Expand Your Impact. Transform More Lives
The Be Who You Really See™ Practitioner (Licensee) Program is for professionals who are called to help individuals and couples break free from limiting patterns and build deeply fulfilling relationships.
Designed for relationship coaches, therapists, counselors, life coaches, foster and adoption specialists, marriage and family therapists, clergy, and other transformation-driven professionals, this program provides a structured, research-backed framework to help individuals and couples create deep, identity-level transformation in love and relationships.
Upon successful completion, practitioners (licensees) gain access to exclusive methodologies, tools, and coaching systems that allow them to scale their impact through private coaching, group programs, and online courses—all while maintaining a high standard of excellence and transformational results.
It’s Time to Make the Impact and Income YOU Imagine
By becoming a Be Who You Really See™ Practitioner (Licensee), you’re not just learning a methodology—you gain the rights to teach, implement, and profit from a proven, research-backed system that transforms lives.
Your Journey to Becoming a Be Who You Really See™ Practitioner (Licensee)
STEP 1:
Application Process – No Fee to Apply
- Submit your application – There is no cost to apply. Applications are reviewed on a rolling basis, so if this calls to you, apply today. Please allow 48-72 hours for our team to review your submission.
- After acceptance, you’ll receive an email with the link for program enrollment.
- If you are not accepted, you may receive guidance on areas to strengthen before reapplying.
STEP 2:
Enrollment & Onboarding
- Submit Payment – After acceptance, you’ll receive a secure link to submit payment for program access.
- Receive Your Welcome Email & Next Steps Guide – This includes everything you need to get started.
- Review & Sign Your License Agreement – This document outlines your rights and responsibilities as a licensed practitioner.
STEP 3:
Niche Selection, Core Training & Practitioner Exams
- Clarify Your Niche – Work through the Niche Discovery Workbook to define your ideal audience.
- Master the Core Methodologies – You’ll gain access to:
- Secrets to A Level 10 Love Life™ Training & Exam
- Create Your Fantasy Love Story™ Training & Exam
- Love Reimagined™ Training & Exam
- Start using this framework with individuals and couples.
STEP 4:
Advanced Training & Sales Mastery
Develop Deeper Coaching & Business Skills – Unlock:
- Advanced Practitioner-Level Trainings & Exams
- QuickStart & Advanced Sales Training to help you enroll high-value clients.
- Apply Sales & Business Growth Strategies – Learn how to scale your coaching practice using proven techniques.
STEP 5:
Ongoing Support & Growth
- Exclusive Practitioner Resources – Get quarterly content guides, sales strategies, and new tools.
- Live Coaching & Community Support – Join:
- Monthly group coaching calls for advanced strategy.
- Quarterly webinars introducing new methods and techniques.
- On-Demand Help – Receive email and chat support for personalized guidance.
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Investment - ONLY $1,500.00
The Be Who You Really See™ Practitioner (Licensee) Program is for serious life changers who are committed to helping individuals and couples create the love life they imagine. As a licensed practitioner, you’ll gain the rights to teach and implement a proven, research-backed methodology designed to create deep, identity-level shifts in love and relationships.
What You Get: You will receive access to over 100 copyrighted resources, including trainings, workbooks, assessments, coaching frameworks, and business growth tools—all designed to help you confidently guide clients through deep, lasting relationship transformation.
Investment: The initial program licensing fee is $1,500.00, which grants you full access to the training, proprietary methodologies, business growth resources, and ongoing practitioner support. To continue teaching and using the licensed materials, there is a $200 annual renewal fee. Flexible payment plans are available for the initial licensing fee (with a payment plan fee added).
There is no fee to apply—if accepted, you will receive a payment link to enroll and gain full program access.
All material is covered under copyrights with the US Copyright Office. The copyright protection shall remain in effect for the life of the author plus an additional 70 years. We do offer a licensing program for those interested in using our material for any purpose and/or activities intended to garner business or public attention. As a participant in any solutions offered by The Fantasy Love Co., you agree not to use, disclose, repurpose, repackage, or resell any content, methodologies, information, or teachings provided during or as a part of the course for any commercial purposes without the express written consent of The Fantasy Love Co. This includes, but is not limited to, starting a similar service, conducting trainings, or creating content derived from our materials with the intent to garner business. This agreement is in effect for a period of ten years (120 months) following the conclusion of your participation in the course. Violation of this agreement will result in legal action for injunctive relief, damages, and any other remedies available under the law, including financial compensation for damages incurred by The Fantasy Love Co.. By participating, you acknowledge and agree to these terms and understand the consequences of violating this agreement.
"...I’ve started doing things purposefully and it feels so good to see the results so far! After being married 19 years I needed to reflect on our true love and bring that intimacy, sparkle and desire we had with each other. Being a pastor and wife plus both having busy jobs with long hours we kinda had put our marriage and love life on the back burner. Since doing your steps it’s been amazing!! We both needed to answer those questions and start fresh!! Thank you so much!!..."
Pastor/Wife
She wants to remain completely anonymous
"Tristan has been a true game-changer for our marriage. We were at a crossroads and had lost that special spark that brought us together in the first place. My wife had businesses in a different time zone, our joint business in Texas was just starting out, and our children needed our attention too. We were overwhelmed and needed help...We were able to reconnect on a deeper level, find balance in our personal and professional lives, and our joint business continued to thrive while our out-of-state business was brought to a successful close."
G. F.
He wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"...The deterioration of my career as an accomplished designer had eroded my view of myself as a man, as a provider, and as a father. And unsurprisingly, none of these other women could see these things. This allowed me to still exist in that place of accomplishment in my head. I had to face my new reality and pivot so I could rebuild with the pieces that remained.
It was an absolute blessing that we crossed paths on that day. My mindset has since been refocused on making my marriage and home a place of integrity, and peace for myself, my wife and our family..."
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"...After a couple of sessions and homework assignments, I thought I was ready to present myself to the dating world. However, no matter how ready I thought I was, Ashley and her strategic process reminded me I wasn't. The strategy she employs forces you to answer a series of questions, that ultimately programs, and in many areas, reprograms your brain so you can show up and behave congruent with what you say you want and need...."
Terri Brown
testimonial
Tristan helped me to let go of the negative thinking that I was having about myself and my role as a contributor in our home and he also helped me to see the positives in the fact that my girlfriend is a ride-or-die chick who loves me despite how much money that I have or the car that I drive, etc.
With a clearer mindset,focused on solutions rather than my ego I’ve been able to craft some solutions to be able to bring in more income without sacrificing my dream and we’ve even been able to come up with solutions to downsize our living expenses so that we can quickly overcome this difficult time.
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
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