You don’t need another relationship book.
You need a blueprint that builds the relationship you imagine—and the courage to start.
This is that blueprint. A Written Coaching Experience—a guided, step-by-step methodology.
Your dream love life isn’t far away. It’s one choice away.
Choose it now.
Tristan and Ashley Boyd, Certified Life Coaches, Relationship Transformation Strategists & Co-Creators of the Be Who You Really See™ Methodology™
Unlock the transformational roadmap that helps you stop settling in love—and finally create the love life you truly imagine.
Most people are stuck in what we call The Happy Trap—the emotional state where you stop being who you really see.
And every time you are in The Happy Trap, your love life feels a little less like yours.
You start performing connection instead of living it.
You stay present, but not fully seen.
You go through the motions of love—but something vital is missing.
You still care.
You’re still grateful.
But underneath it all, you're wondering:
“When did I start hiding parts of me just to keep the peace?”
“Why does it feel like I’m showing up, but not all the way?”
“How much longer can I keep pretending this is enough?”
But most people don’t even realize what actually happened:
That somewhere along the way, they stopped being who they really see.
And that’s what’s been creating the disconnection, the flatness, the quiet ache they can’t explain.
This is the real reason for romantic dissatisfaction.
It’s not about conflict or communication.
It’s about misalignment between the life you're living and the version of you who still imagines something different.
Most people don’t realize what romantic dissatisfaction is actually doing to them.
It’s not just a relationship problem—it’s a life problem.
It disconnects you from your truth.
It rewires your identity, hijacks your emotional energy, clouds your clarity.
It disrupts your health, your leadership, and your dreams.
And it robs you of your ability to lead, love, and live fully as who you really see yourself being and all the fulfilling things that come along with that state of being.
And no amount of success, promotions, vacations, or self-help quotes can fix the impact of a relationship that no longer honors who you really see yourself being.
We know it because we lived it. And we broke free.
What we offer isn’t advice—it’s a proven, step-by-step roadmap to help you create the love life you imagine with clarity, alignment, and power.
This is your way out of the Happy Trap—
and into the love life that reflects who you really see yourself being.
The version of you that still believes in the dream… and is ready to live it.
Our Blueprint Doesn’t Just Inspire—It Equips You
Stop Settling for Happy When You Really Want the Dream is your transformational roadmap to break out of emotional survival mode and finally create the love life you imagine.
This isn’t a teaser or intro. This written coaching experience contains our entire step-by-step system—from the ACT Method™ to Love Reimagined™—laid out with the same clarity, structure, and breakthrough power we use with our clients.
You’re not getting part of the puzzle. You’re getting all of it.
Every phase. Every principle. Every tool we use to guide individuals and couples into the love life they imagine.
You don’t need more content.
You need clarity, connection, and courageous action.
This experience gives you the system to change everything.
The only thing it doesn’t include? The guided immersion tools—like in depth guided experiences, live trainings, and integrations—designed to help you practice it, embody it, and experience it with us.
If the written coaching experience is the full blueprint, the trainings are how you build the dream in real time.
One built on truth. On depth. On desire.
And fully aligned with who you really see yourself being.
You might be single, dating, married, rebuilding—or already living the love life you imagined—and you know this truth: You want to experience the love life you imagine.
You're not looking for gimmicks or shallow tips. You want truth. You want transformation.
The Vision-Driven Romantic
“I won’t settle for almost. I know the love I imagine is possible—and I will only choose a love that matches who I really see myself being.”
You’re single, dating, or somewhere in-between—but you know who you’re becoming, and you refuse to settle for less than alignment.
You’re not just looking for love. You’re looking for love that reflects your truest identity, your truth, and the life you imagine.
You’re done attracting what doesn’t fit. You’re ready to break old patterns, get clear on who you really are, and create the love life you imagine with someone who sees and meets you there.
The Silent Settler
“Everyone says I should be happy—but I know something’s missing.”
You’ve checked the boxes. Things look good on the outside. But inside, something’s missing—and you can feel it. You’re not in crisis. You’re just quietly disconnected—from your partner, from yourself, or from the love you once imagined.
Everyone thinks you should be happy, but you can’t shake the quiet ache that this isn’t it.
You’re tired of pretending. You’re ready to feel again. You’re ready to start living the love life you truly imagine.
The Self-Aware Seeker
“We’re not in trouble. But we’re not fully aligned either—and I’m ready to change that.”
You’ve built a solid relationship—maybe even a great one—but something’s missing. Not crisis. Just misalignment.
You’re not chasing perfection. You’re craving truth. Depth. Emotional connection that reflects your evolution.
You’ve listened to the sermons. The podcasts. Read the books. Tried therapy. Made progress. But the love you imagine still feels just beyond reach.You’re not afraid of the work—you just want it to matter. You want a blueprint—not just to have love, but to align it with who you really see yourself being.
The Pattern Breaker
“I refuse to repeat the patterns that nearly broke me.”
You’ve seen what settling does. You’ve felt what it costs to settle. You’ve lived through the cycles of disappointment, disconnect, or the emotional shutdown—and you’re done repeating them.
You’re not here to fix what’s broken. You’re here to build what’s real, magnetic, and lasting. Love that’s rooted in the truth of your identity.
You’ve done the inner work. You’ve seen the truth. Now, you’re ready to break free—for good.
This time, it has to be different. It has to be honest. It has to be aligned. And it has to reflect the love story you actually imagine living.
The Dream Protector
“We’ve built the dream—and now, I want to protect it.”
You’re living the love life you once only imagined—but you know alignment isn’t a one-time thing.
You want to keep growing, deepening, and protecting what you’ve built—so it stays magnetic, alive, and anchored in truth. Because you’ve seen how easy it is to slip back into “happy.” And that’s not a place you’re willing to live.
This blueprint helps you stay out of the Happy Trap… and keep living your dream with ease.
Whether you’re just beginning or already thriving, this blueprint helps you stay out of The Happy Trap—and keep living a love story that reflects who you really see yourself being.
"Disrupting the lies society has programmed us to believe.
Ashley and Tristan are doing just that. Helping couples build that level 10 love life…..passion, amazing sex, vision casting, communication, unity building…. They are leading the way.
Check them out! You won’t regret it!"
THE QUEEN OF GREEN
She has appeared in over 350 media outlets to include Yahoo Finance, Market Watch, Bloomberg Businessweek, NBC, ABC, Worth Magazine, BET, Chicago Business Journal, DEALBREAKER, Gospel Today, Reuters, Fox 5 News, EMoney Daily, BEYOND THE DOW, Atlanta Business Chronicle, and CBS News to name a few.
Romantic dissatisfaction is the most disruptive life stressor—emotionally, psychologically, and physiologically. Inside, you'll discover:
The Hidden Cost of “Happy”: Why unresolved relationship stress silently hijacks your focus, confidence, and future
The Ache You Can’t Ignore: Why pretending, performing, or settling will never satisfy what’s aching inside you
The Power of True Love: How healing your love life is the gateway to unlocking your clarity and potential in every other part of life
Your Path to Transformation: Our complete 4-phase system designed to guide you to create the love life you imagine
The ACT Method™: Rebuild clarity, connection, and courage with our foundational blueprint
Break the Cycle: The real reasons you're stuck—and how to finally break free
Subconscious Shifts: Tools to heal the hidden beliefs silently sabotaging your love life
Emotional Intimacy Made Real: Practical, identity-aligned guidance to build magnetic connection
Love by Design, Not Default: A vision-first, truth-based roadmap for love that aligns with your full potential
This is your blueprint to break that cycle—and create the love life you were always meant to live.
When most people hear the word "fantasy," they think fake. Unrealistic. Untouchable.
But for us, fantasy isn’t fluff—it’s fire.
It’s the raw, boundless ability of the mind to create beyond what is.
Fantasy is not escape from truth—
Fantasy is truth, burning brighter than reality itself.
We don’t believe fantasy love is perfect.
We don’t believe it’s effortless.
We believe it’s fully lived truth—
The relationship so aligned with your real, next-level self that it sets your entire life on fire—in the best way possible.
This isn’t about perfect love.
It’s about true, authentically-aligned love—the kind you don't have to shrink, perform, or settle for.
It’s the version of love where:
At the heart of everything we teach is the Be Who You Really See™ Methodology—a first-of-its-kind, research-backed framework designed to help vision-driven individuals break free from silent barriers, live authentically, and create the extraordinary love life they imagine.
Unlike traditional methods that either focus on healing without action, or action without depth, this revolutionary system bridges the gap between therapy and coaching—seamlessly integrating emotional healing, strategic action, and subconscious identity transformation.
Through this transformative approach, you’ll learn how to:
You’ll also learn how to:
Our proven framework combines:
Supported by a layered, step-by-step system—including The ACT Method™ to build clarity and connection, The Secrets to a Level 10 Love Life™ to break hidden patterns, Create Your Fantasy Love Story™ to sustain breakthrough growth, and Love Reimagined™ to fully align love and life—this methodology delivers a clear, structured path to live the extraordinary love life you imagine, boldly and without compromise.
This layered journey unfolds through four progressive phases:
PHASE 1: The ACT Method™ —
You’ll first learn how to Achieve Clarity, Connect Authentically, and Transcend Your Current Reality—laying the essential foundation to step into the love life you imagine.
PHASE 2: The Secrets to a Level 10 Love Life™ —
Next, you’ll uncover the top three secrets of irresistible lovers—learning to break free from the hidden patterns silently sabotaging connection, confidence, and relational joy.
PHASE 3: Create Your Fantasy Love Story™ —
Then, you’ll master how to sustain those breakthroughs—building the emotional resilience and relational design necessary to stay free from old patterns and effortlessly live the love story you truly imagine.
PHASE 4: Love Reimagined™ —
Finally, you’ll be guided through a complete, proven roadmap to release the nine hidden beliefs sabotaging your love life—creating a magnetic emotional connection filled with authenticity, excitement, intimacy, and true alignment.
Each phase builds intentionally upon the last—ensuring that you don’t just experience temporary breakthroughs, but real, permanent transformation in how you love, lead, and live.
You won’t just learn about love.
You’ll live it—boldly, fully, and without compromise.
SUCCESS STORIES
4.5 out of 5 hearts
Felicia Roberts, Wife
"...In my singleness and now married life she has helped me dig deep in situations that have helped me learn and grow into a whole woman..."
Anonymous, Husband
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"...It was an absolute blessing that we crossed paths on that day. My mindset has since been refocused on making my marriage and home a place of integrity, and peace for myself, my wife and our family."
Candice W., Mom, Girlfriend
"...Ashley helped me connect with the person that I had always wanted to try to be, she pushed me, she guided me, she made me really think..."
G.F., Husband
He wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"Tristan has been a true game-changer for our marriage. We were at a crossroads and had lost that special spark that brought us together in the first place... We were able to reconnect on a deeper level, find balance in our personal and professional lives, and our joint business continued to thrive..."
Anonymous, Husband
He wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"I was steadily trying to win my wife back even after she’d expressed that this season had ended. The divorce was going to happen for sure this time. The questions that Tristan and Ashley asked me helped me understand the role I played in the separation...I’m still working on my mindset, but I know I am already a better man, father and businessman. In my next relationship I will have the tools to listen to concerns when they come up and make adjustments that show how much I care."
Anonymous, Pastor, Wife
She wants to remain anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
"...I’ve started doing things purposefully and it feels so good to see the results so far! After being married 19 years I needed to reflect on our true love and bring that intimacy, sparkle and desire we had with each other. Being a pastor and wife plus both having busy jobs with long hours we kinda had put our marriage and love life on the back burner. Since doing your steps it’s been amazing!! We both needed to answer those questions and start fresh!! Thank you so much!!..."
These are paraphrased testimonials. You can access the full testimonials by clicking here: ACCESS FULL TESTIMONIALS
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Tristan helped me get clear on what I want to give and receive in a relationship. He made me stick to the vision I created and held me accountable to not fall back into old patterns. Now, I’m continuing to work on myself, feeling more in control and responsible for my life. I’ve done a lot of apologizing, accepted responsibility, and have even shed tears. I feel better.
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
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"...one of the new biggest things that came up for me was that I was keeping the peace with those around me at the expense of my peace. So I was at war with myself, because I wasn’t being honest with people around me, and just expressing what was really going on with me. And that was affecting me in my relationship and my business...I’m not there all the way to the vision, but just working with Ashley, I’ve gotten one of my biggest contracts that I have ever had as a business owner. I am at peace, and I am very clear about what I want. And I am taking the steps of my life to get everything that I want. And I’m coming for everything that is mine. And I think God for Ashley being that catalyst for a lot of that change to happen."
Kamilah Harrison, Founder of ADO Digital
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Tristan helped me to let go of the negative thinking that I was having about myself and my role as a contributor in our home and he also helped me to see the positives in the fact that my girlfriend is a ride-or-die chick who loves me despite how much money that I have or the car that I drive, etc.
With a clearer mindset,focused on solutions rather than my ego I’ve been able to craft some solutions to be able to bring in more income without sacrificing my dream and we’ve even been able to come up with solutions to downsize our living expenses so that we can quickly overcome this difficult time.
He wants to remain completely anonymous but is ok with us sharing his story.
You weren’t created to settle for "happy."
You were born to create the love life you imagine—and live the dream you know is real.
We don’t just teach this.
We live it.
Every single day.
The love life you imagine is real.
The dream is real.
And it’s waiting for you to choose it.
Access the written coaching experience. Begin the shift. Live the dream.
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Results Disclaimer:
As with any investment, your results will vary and will be based on your personal abilities, experience, knowledge, capabilities, the effort put forth by the individuals involved, the specific nature of the relationship, and the willingness to make changes, and an infinite number of variables outside of our control, including factors we or you have not anticipated. The use of our information, products and services should be based on your own due diligence and you agree that we are not liable for your success or failure.
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We’re Tristan and Ashley Boyd, co-founders of The Fantasy Love Co.
We don’t teach theory—we give you the exact blueprint we used to stop settling for happy and build the love life we imagine.
After falling in love in college, going our separate ways for a decade, and reuniting in a secret elopement, we discovered that happiness wasn’t enough.
The love life we imagined required truth, alignment, and radical transformation.
We did the deep work to align with our identities, create a magnetic emotional connection, and create a love life that feels fully alive.
Now, we help others do the same. This isn’t about following our footsteps—it’s about helping you create the love life you imagine.
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